Erica Mena will be celebrating her birthday on Nov. 8 and she's already preparing this early. Meanwhile, the former "Love & Hip Hop New York" star and Bow Wow continue to drop hints regarding the status of their relationship and it's not pretty.

Just recently, the "CSI: Cyber" actor posted a note on his Facebook which read, "And finally you realize ...You can't force "it" to be something. You can't force consistency, loyalty, or even honesty ... You can't force them to keep their word, or to communicate, or to realize something is special in front of them."

Later, Bow Wow wrote, "Everything happens for a reason. The tough part is trying to find out what the reason is."

On Oct. 28, former "Love & Hip Hop New York" star Erica Mena hinted again about the split when she wrote, "It's so much worst for you when I know you don't like me. I'm a Scorpio I can make you think about me even when you don't want too."

In another post, she seems to be hinting of a change, "Accept the things about yourself u can't change. Have the courage & self discipline to work on what u can, ultimately becoming a better YOU."

She added, "Your primary goal every single day should be to just be happy. That's really all you can do."

If the former "Love & Hip Hop New York" star is not hinting about her split with Bow Wow, Erica Mena is preparing for her birthday on Nov. 8.

In fact, she asked fans on her Twitter if they agree that she undergoes a makeover for the big day.

"What you think guys!!! Birthday hair, go shorter or longer?"

"Go longer," one fan commented. "You look absolutely gorgeous with long hair but then again you also look gorgeous with short hair. Go long."

Another said, "(S)horter. (A) woman changes (h)er hair she changes (h)er life (sic)."

"Love & Hip Hop New York" star Erica Mena and Bow Wow have not issued a statement on the rumors about their split.