Lady Gaga News: What you see is what you don't get.

Such is the case of Lady Gaga and her boyfriend Taylor Kinney. Despite Lady Gaga's daring acts and intriguing performances on-stage, she says she is the complete opposite when she is with her boyfriend as she lets him "take charge".

"Yes, actually," the 27-year-old Grammy winner said. "He's totally in charge. I mean, when I am home, I am like, shoes are off, I'm making him dinner. He has a job, too, and he is really busy!"

"I'm in charge all day long, the last thing I want to do is tell him what to do," she explained. "It's not good for relationships to tell men what to do."

Gaga and the Chicago Fire hunk, 32, have been dating since first meeting on set of her 2011 "You and I" music video, where he in fact made the first move.

"We were in the middle of this scene and I remember that he kissed me and it wasn't scripted for him to kiss me," Gaga said during an appearance on The Ellen DeGeneres Show on Nov. 25. "I was sort of like was um, you know, was that real or was that fake? He didn't really say anything and that was fine by me and we kept filming."

According to their close friends, in case fans think the handsome, clean-cut actor seems too white bread for the likes of Gaga, think again! "He is extremely strange, actually, and we complement each other's weirdness," she insisted. "And you know, at the end of the day he's my best friend. And having your lover be your best friend, I mean, it's the best thing ever."

This article originally appeared on Usmagazine.com: Lady Gaga Is Submissive to Boyfriend Taylor Kinney, Says "He's Totally In Charge"